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29 Dec 2010 pregnancy highlights: 33/34 weeks.
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Due to Christmas, I’m combining weeks 33 & 34 in one post…that’s late.  Oops.  Oh well.

33 weeks 

Pregnancy Highlights: December 25, 2010.

How Far Along: 34 weeks.

Size of Baby:  Last week, Baby was a pineapple.  Now she is a cantaloupe.  She’s gaining about 1/2 lb. per week, so she weighs about 4.75 pounds now!

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  Thanks to a strict McDonalds/Starbucks/Chipotle diet last Monday & Tuesday, I was able to gain some weight!  I have now officially gained 4 lbs since the week before Thanksgiving!  I think I’m up to +21 lbs (according to the doctor) total.

Maternity Clothes:  I got my maternity jeans last week!  I like the no-button-to-dig-into-Baby.  They’re a size smaller than my “normal” size, and I could have actually gone down another size.  Who does that?!

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  I think she’s getting bored.  She likes Christmas cookies & Thanksgiving food, and she gets excited about those.  Beyond that, she’s wiggly, but not as kicky except at night.

Sleep:  Still not incredibly comfortable + wacky dreams.  And I need my back to crack, but it won’t.  Ugh!

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Picking things up comfortably (again).

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  Christmas!

What I’m Looking Forward To:  Getting more things ready for Baby!  We got our travel system for Christmas (Thanks Grandpa & Grandma Helfinstine!), and I’m going to work on her room some more on my days off this week (wall decorations!).  AND Tuesday (December 28) is our 5th anniversary!!

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17 Dec 2010 Helfinstine Junior Journal: 2010 Christmas Letter.
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2010 has brought all sorts of excitement to the Helfinstine household.

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David continues to work at Children’s Hospital in Minneapolis while he works on his B.S. in Medical Laboratory Science from Argosy.

Sarah also continues to sell things at aerie at MOA—no location change this year!

In July, we spent a week with David’s family on vacation at Sunset Beach, NC.

We also maintained our annual MN State Fair with the Haugruds tradition over Labor Day weekend, going on what turned out to be a record-breaking attendance day!

 

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Bones, our Lab/Welsh Corgi puppy, joined our family on February 4.  She turned one-year-old in September.

We think she may also be part rabbit, as she jumps about 2 feet in the air when it’s her dinnertime, and part cat (as in scaredy-cat), as she is scared of just about everything the first time she encounters it.  The exceptions are the vacuum and paper; she runs away from both of them still!

Her repertoire of tricks include ‘sit,’ ‘down,’ ‘shake,’ and ‘speak.’  If she’s really excited, she’ll try to do them all at once.

 

 

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Baby

On May 27, we found out our most exciting news of the year:

Baby Helfinstine will be arriving in February!

In September, we found out that we’re having a girl!  Her expected due date is February 5, but Bones is hoping she’s born on her adoption day (one day earlier).

 

We wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Merry Christmas!

For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given:
and the government shall be upon his shoulder:
and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor,
The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.
Isaiah 9:6 (KJV)

16 Dec 2010 oh the weather outside is frightful.
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I couldn’t tell you anything about whether the fire is so delightful, as I didn’t get to see it…but I guess Bones was scared of the fan in the fireplace!

As I’m sure everyone’s heard, we are maintaining our wonderful Minnesota winter weather.  For the past 4 weekends, I believe, we have had some type of freezing rain, snow, blowing snow, or blizzard going on.  I have been fortunate enough to get to drive from Farmington or the MOA to Hugo at least once during each of these fun weather situations!

Side Note:  I just looked, and it’s actually been 5 consecutive weekends with ice and snow!

Our wonderful snow began on Friday night.  Since I had to work at 10 on Saturday morning, I figured roads should be relatively plowed; enough to get by, that is.

This was my first problem.

Our association uses a fantastic snow removal service that consists of 2 pickups with plow attachments, a bobcat or 2, a couple snow blowers, and a bunch of people with shovels who speak varying degrees of English.  As we have a rather LARGE development (consisting of 4 townhome neighborhoods, a school, and single family homes beyond the school), to say this is inadequate is quite an understatement.

David ‘got’ to dig me out of the 2-foot piles left by the plows in the street.  Fun.  So it took about another half hour before I got out of the neighborhood.  I managed to get to work okay, despite being able to see only part of one lane most of the drive down (and that was before my windshield wipers were mostly ice!).  I was not too excited about my impending drive back home that afternoon, or coming back the next morning.  [oooh, foreshadow-y.]

For those of you who think people would tend to stay inside during a blizzard, you are correct to an extent.  The morning was quiet (while people were presumably digging themselves out), but people in Minnesota have a strange desire to shop during severe weather.  If it’s just cold, they may or may not come out.  But if it’s a snowstorm, they will shop.  Trust me, after 8+ years of working in retail, I know.  And come on, it’s the Mall of America.  We had plenty of visitor-types who wanted to shop, plus all the people who’d come to town for the Vikings game.  [cue ominous music]

About 1:30 Saturday afternoon, we were getting questions about whether the mall was going to be closing due to weather.  Around this time, I also got a call from David telling me he was getting me a hotel room for the night because he didn’t want me to have to make the trip home & back again.  A bunch of stores were already planning on closing early (2:30-4pm or so), so we were waiting to hear back from our District Manager about the possibility of our closing early as well.

Then mass transit and the airport shut down, or something.  So everybody came to shop!!  And who wants to sit in an airport or the hotel (they weren’t planning on staying at) in their regular clothes?!  We sell pj pants & sweats & undies!  It was established that the Mall would be closing at 6 (and you wouldn’t believe how upset some people were about the mall’s closing early).  Since I had a hotel room, the company would cover it & AE would get one as well.  Woohoo, party at the hotel!!  Um, I guess that means I need to get some pj’s and clothes for tomorrow…  And everything else.  Planning on looking really cute for work on Sunday considering I have no hair dryer, straightener, or brushEven though hotels typically have hair dryers, that’s not going to do a whole lot of good without a hairbrush.

There ended up being 7 of us going to the hotel, 2 of whom were picked up within a couple hours.  There was something like 2 feet of snow in the intersections.  Good thing I didn’t try to go home!

Instead of watching TV or a movie or something, guess what we did?!  Watch cars get stuck on the road, in ditches, etc!  And try to take pictures of them with cell phone cameras!

First we saw a little car get stuck.  Then a truck came and covered it with snow.  The people got out and went into the truck and they all left.  (This took place over about a 20-minute time period, after which we took an hour-long break from snow watching to eat.)

Then we saw a parade of 10 plows drive past, followed by a little car who zoomed past a couple of them and got stuck.  The plows kept going.  Serves the car right, I guess.

Shortly after the plows went through, we saw more cars get stuck.  On the newly plowed road.  Go figure.  One went in the ditch and the people came running out of another car with shovels.  To dig the car out of the ditch.  Right.  Let me know how that works out for you.

The black blobs in the snow are the people.  You can kind of see the car (far right, mostly covered by the roof of the hotel’s water park).IMAG0030

This car got stuck in front of the snow plow (far right).  Shoot.IMAG0031

This one got stuck shortly after that last plow went past and thought it would be a good idea to reverse out of the ditch.IMAG0032

Hey, at least we were entertained for the evening.

I’m pretty sure I usually look more put-together for my days off than I did for work on Sunday!  Sorry customers, I did what I could with hotel shampoo & conditioner, finger-combing, and bobby pins & a ponytail holder!

By the time I got home from work Sunday night (some 36 hours later), our street was plowed.  The same could not be said for any of the other streets in our neighborhood, however!  And the main-ish road was semi-navigable…one side was cars who couldn’t get to their homes (like I said, no other streets were plowed), and the other side was the trucks containing the snow-removal ‘equipment,’ possibly including the shovelers?!)

At least I had Monday off.

The view outside my door and living room window…after they finally came through to clear the sidewalks.  (They are snowblown 1 snow blower’s width.  Helpful.)

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Those piles of snow on either side of the sidewalk are about 3 feet deep.  Bones is so confused; she can’t get to the grass or off the sidewalk!

The end.

P.S.  The Metrodome collapsed, in case you hadn’t heard.  [sarcasm]

13 Dec 2010 pregnancy highlights: 32 weeks.
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32 weeks

Pregnancy Highlights: December 11, 2010.  (Not actually that date anymore, but we’ll talk about my blizzard experience in another post!)

How Far Along: 32 weeks.

Size of Baby:  Baby is now a jicama, weighing in at 3.75 lbs.  She’s around the same length:  about 18 inches (depending on what website you look at, she’s anywhere from 16.7-19 inches this week!).

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  My scale at home shows that I’ve gained a total of 23 lbs, but it starts at 3 lbs instead of 0, so I guess that means a total of 20?  I don’t really know.  I think I’ll stick with the story that Baby is eating all my food, so regardless of how much I eat, she takes it all.

Maternity Clothes:  Still the same…I’m sticking with my regular clothes.  Oh, I guess I am buying more size medium shirts now as opposed to small, if that counts.  We pre-registered online last night for the hospital and were entertained by the list of what to bring to the hospital:  I’m supposed to bring clothes that fit when I was about 5 months pregnant.  That would be different from my clothes now, how?

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  She is still crazy.  When she is not entertained by whatever I’m doing, she goes really low and stretches out.  I think it’s because she knows it’s not incredibly comfortable for me.  At work we have…fantastic entertainment outside our store some days, when miscellaneous bands, singers, and/or musicians play in the Sears court.  Baby is not a fan of those, especially the loud bands.  She moves to whatever side of me is furthest from the door and kicks!

Sleep:  Not incredibly comfortable + wacky dreams.

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Hmm, can’t really think of anything for this week.  I guess just not having to remember my stomach takes up more space when trying to get through narrow spaces!

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  Blizzard!  OR…not so much.  We did get a good chunk of our Christmas shopping taken care of, so that’s good!

What I’m Looking Forward To:  Christmas!  Also, I’m still trying to teach Baby to kick on command.  I want her to kick Bones!  She’s done it several times, but Bones either doesn’t notice or doesn’t care.  Bones does enjoy snuggling with Baby though, see??

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05 Dec 2010 pregnancy highlights: 31 weeks.
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Pregnancy Highlights: December 4, 2010.  (Also my birthday!  I am now old.)

How Far Along: 31 weeks.

Size of Baby:  There are no individual fruits or vegetables the size of Baby this week, so she is the weight of four oranges.  I do not eat oranges (or orange juice), so that doesn’t actually help me, although I’m sure it would be helpful for most people.  That’s about 3.5 lbs, and she’s getting tall:  about 18 inches!

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  So apparently I am the only person who loses weight over Thanksgiving…I lost 3 oz. between my last appointment and the one I had this week.  How does that work?!  But I’m still in the realm of acceptable weight gain, having gained 17 lbs. since my first doctor’s appointment (about 20 from original).

Maternity Clothes:  Regular jeans held up with the bella band still working moderately well, but I change into pj pants as soon as I get home!

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  She is crazy.  The doctor said she still has lots of room, so she decided to take advantage of that and is now all over the place.  She figured out how to punch me in the ribs, stomach, diaphragm, and bladder, so that’s been…fun.  She’s also been doing complete somersaults and sticking random body parts out so I look like I have weird tumors on my stomach!

Sleep:  Difficult to get comfortable.

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Being able to get back off the couch/bed/etc. with minimal effort!

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  My birthday was Saturday (it’s now Sunday), so that was fun!  My parents and brother were able to make it down for the weekend and we had Christmas baking fun at David’s parents’ house on Saturday!  I also got a phone call from my other brother, who is currently in Germany, on my birthday.  On the baby side, on Thursday night I was lying on the couch & Baby decided to stick her foot or something out over my belly button, resulting in my stomach looking very strange.  Then she rolled from one side to the other, which was completely visible from the outside.  She was rather entertaining that evening!

What I’m Looking Forward To:  Eating Christmas cookies!  And I suppose ordering our Christmas cards…I should probably get on that one.

I’ll have pictures up later; uploading them from yesterday would require my getting off the couch, which we’ve already established is not the easiest thing to do anymore!

27 Nov 2010 pregnancy highlights: 30 weeks.
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30 weeks

Pregnancy Highlights: November 27, 2010.

How Far Along: 30 weeks.

Size of Baby:  Baby is a large cabbage this week, which, unlike the squash, I have a slim-to-no chance of eating this week.  She could also be a sweater:  not as tasty.  She should weigh about 3 pounds and be around 16 inches long.

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  On Thanksgiving morning, I was +20 from original.  I haven’t felt like checking since then, for obvious reasons.

Maternity Clothes:  Still not doing that.  I wore rollovers on Thanksgiving and we had pj party at work on Friday and Saturday (jealous??  What I’m wearing in the picture is what I wore to work today!).

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  About the same.  She likes Thanksgiving food, though!  She was excited about that.

Sleep:  Now I’ve started the wacky dreams, along with waking up a couple times a night.  How fun is that?!

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Probably mentioned before, but being allowed to lift things (like boxes of gift boxes & bags to restock the cash wrap) and also being able to bend over comfortably to pick stuff up!

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  I have graduated from “Are you pregnant?” to “When are you due?” or “Is it a boy or girl?” or “Is this your first?”.  Yay, I must look pregnant now!

What I’m Looking Forward To:  #1:  Monday off = decorate for Christmas!  #2:  my birthday on Saturday!

And also for your viewing pleasure/amusement:  Bones watching her baby sister!

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24 Nov 2010 ‘tis the season.
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As the Christmas season* (my birthday as well, hint hint) draws near, here are some fun tips** to remember.

Holiday Shopping for Dummies:
10 Things Retail Employees Wish Every Customer Knew

1. It’s busy. It’s the week before Christmas; what did you expect? If you prefer to shop in an environment that is not crowded, loud, or busy, do your shopping online. Or in October.

2. It’s December 24th and there are only 0 Long and 14 Short left in the jeans your daughter wants. And there are only extra small and double extra large left in your son’s desired sweatshirt. There are two main reasons for this holiday shopping trauma: (a) it’s Christmas Eve, and (b) most people are not extra small, double extra large, 0 Long, or 14 Short, so those sizes remain.

3. The only size left in everything your niece wants is extra small, which, incidentally, is not her size. Why might this be? It is not because stores think everyone should be extra small. In fact, it is because the majority of people are not extra small—that’s why all the other sizes are sold out.

4. The cashier asked twice during the transaction if you wanted gift receipts and you said no. When the transaction is done, she cannot go back and reprint them. (Excitingly enough, we now can. But our options are all on one, or all separate, not “these 2 items on one, these three on another, and this one on another.”)

5. Stores that provide free gift boxes do so as a courtesy to their customers. However, they may run out multiple times during the holiday season. Do not get mad at them—they are not required to provide gift boxes at all, much less free. The mall would probably appreciate it if no stores did, since the customer service desk sells them! If a store has run out of gift boxes, do not yell at the employees. They have no control over shipment delivery. Yell at the distribution center—we’d sure like to sometimes! Another thing to remember is that gift boxes are not necessary. You can always use gift bags…or just plain wrapping paper.

6. Knowing the size of whomever you are shopping for is a good idea. (“13-year-old girl” is not a size.) Another thing to remember about size is that your child, unless she is a size 00 extra long, probably does not wear a unique or impossible-to-find size. Most stores carry extra small through extra large, 0 Short through 14 Long.

7. Store employees know how their clothes fit. They also know how other stores’ clothing fits comparable to their own. However, they will not be able to tell you “exactly” how the shirt will fit your child. They can tell you if it runs true to size, large, or small.

8. Your child does not want you to tell the associate why the size doesn’t fit. The associate doesn’t need to know why it doesn’t fit. Asking for the next size up or down will appease all involved. If you feel the need to give some kind of explanation, please keep it to “it’s a little short/long/tight/big,” and refrain from comments such as “My granddaughter is just too busty for this style of shirt,” or “These jeans make my daughter look fat.” (And yes, I have heard these from actual customers.)

9. Lower-numbered sizes are smaller than larger-numbered sizes: a 6 is smaller than an 8 and bigger than a 4. If the sizes are labeled 32×32, 28×30, 34×34, etc., the first number is the waist size (in inches), and the second number is the inseam (in inches). To find the difference between sizes, subtract.

10. Look carefully at signage. Most stores put “and up” on their signs. This is not to trick you. It is because there are usually multiple styles on the same table or fixture, and they are not all the same price. If you have a question about the price, ask about it. A clearance fixture with the sign “$9.95 and up” will contain a range of prices from $9.95 to $69.95 or higher. None of these prices are any more or less “clearance” than any other.  Oh, except those tanks left over from two summers ago that someone returned last week.

11. BONUS! “The customer is always right” sounds good, but it’s actually not 100% true in retail. There are corporate policies that stores have to follow. They will do everything they can, but some rules can’t be bent. We can’t give you back cash if you paid with a gift card; we can only give you current price if you don’t have a receipt; etc.  We will do whatever possible to help you out, but we are limited in certain areas.

And by the way, we have the best return policy; where else is there no time limit and returns can be made for whatever reason you come up with, including “Oh, my jeans fell apart” or “The strap on my bra frayed”?!  (Yes, sir, your jeans have holes in them because you’ve had them since July of 2003; and yes, ma’am, the strap on your bra frayed because you’ve had it since 2008 and oh, you said you’ve been washing and drying it in the machine with all your other clothes?  Well, there you go.  But we’ll still let you exchange them for like items!)

*As there are a variety of holidays around this time which involve getting & giving gifts, in the retail world, it is “holiday.”  Not because they’re anti-Christian and trying to get rid of Christmas.  When referring to the current collection, I will call it our holiday line because that’s what it is (if you don’t believe me, look at the tag above the barcode on the left side.  It says ‘hol1’ or ‘hol2’ on aerie merchandise if it’s from the holiday floorset.)  I won’t say “Happy Holidays” or, even worse, “Seasons Greetings” to a customer because I, personally, think they sound dumb.  But when making conversation, I may ask if you’re doing Christmas shopping, not ‘holiday shopping’ because that sounds dumb too.  If I work on Christmas Eve, I will say “Merry Christmas.”  If it’s any other day, probably not.  Simply because it’s not Christmas yet.  (And if you’re at the mall on Christmas Eve, you’re probably a last-minute shopper type shopping for, you guessed it, CHRISTMAS.)  I probably won’t ever say “Happy Kwanzaa” or “Happy Hanukkah” because I probably won’t know what day(s) they are.  Unless Hanukkah is on my birthday; then I might remember, but I still won’t say “Happy Hanukkah” to you.  The end.

**This was written for my Language Arts Methods class, where we got to experience a Writer’s Workshop.  We had to bring in our inspiration.  Mine was my work schedule, and we had just finished holiday at work, moving on to spring trans & spring.  Please do not be offended by any of these…they are intended to be funny and give you a bit of insight into what is really going on in stores, specifically AE.