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27 May 2011 one year later.
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One year ago today,

I got a call from my ‘special doctor’ (well, one of the people in the office).

It was a short call, but it changed our lives.

It consisted of,

“Congratulations!”

“What??”

“Your blood work came back positive.  You’re pregnant!”

“What?  Really?!”

And that was about it.  I was 3 weeks, 5 days pregnant at the time.

One year later,

our sweet baby Abby is 4 months old.

She was born 34 weeks + 4 hours after that phone call.

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28 Jan 2011 Welcome, Abigail Grace!
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Sarah’s to-do list
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
as of 6 pm

1.  37 week doctor’s appointment

I made up my lost weight from the previous week and came in at +25 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight!  Baby is still sounding and measuring perfect; she’s in position, ready to go, but I haven’t started dilating at all.  Next appointment:  Wednesday, January 28 (38 weeks, 4 days).

2.  Babies R Us

Found a bunch of cute clothes on clearance (with an extra 40% off too!) to fill in some missing sizes from what we have at home.

3.  Target

Updated the registry since Target does baby clearance after Christmas and all the clothes and some other items were no longer available.  They have super cute new clothes for spring, just fyi!  Bought groceries, etc., since David’s trip to Festival only included a couple lunch items for me. 

4.  Clean bathrooms

5.  Laundry

In progress.  All the laundry is sorted; the whites are done, and the last two loads are in the machines.

6.  Put away baby shower gifts

In progress.  I have everything sorted and am trying to decide what to put where.

7.  Wash more baby things

All tags are off and items are sorted by color, ready to go down to the laundry when our stuff is done.

8.  Put away Christmas decorations

9.  Dust

10.  Pack hospital bag

11.  Write thank-you notes from showers

12.  Put gas in car (Thursday morning)

 

I always have an excess of things to do on my days off, especially since my days off the previous week were spent in Fargo, but I figured I’d finish up the rest on Monday since I had that day off too.  I was making decent progress around 6pm, with laundry running & a good chunk of baby stuff taken care of, when…um, what was that?! 

Aaaand, my water broke.

Weirdest.thing.ever.

After I determined that this was indeed what had happened, I came downstairs and told David, “Um, I think my water just broke.”  We called Maternity Care and they told us to come in right away—they thought they’d be able to find a room for us.  How reassuring.  We packed our bags kind of in a daze, while David referred back to my book on what to bring to the hospital (see the not-crossed-off #10 on my to-do’s), called our parents, and headed out.  Oh yeah, see also #12; so we had to stop for gas on the way.  When we were about halfway to the hospital, I started having contractions about 3 minutes apart.

We got to the hospital about 7pm and went to Maternity, although they seemed to have no idea why I was there; apparently, even though my doctor has all the paperwork faxed after the 36 week appointment, the hospital hadn’t gotten my file together yet?!  We ended up getting one of the last two available rooms!  The nurse leading us to our room said, “Wow, you look way too calm to be in labor!”  Riiight.  Although, as I’ve said when people asked if I was ready for labor, she’ll come out whether or not I’m ready!  We got all set up in the room and I got my lovely external monitors on to listen to her heartbeat and measure my contractions.  It was entertaining watching the numbers on the contraction monitor.  The nurse said they only kind of meant something—it might register at 200, but if you’re still laughing & joking around, clearly it’s not that bad.  On the other hand, it could only show a 50, but she said she could tell by looking if it was a bad one or not.  We thought it was fun that when it went over 100, it would flash a + in front of the number.  Bonus points!!  (I suppose that means they weren’t actually that bad.)  They were still coming about 3-4 minutes apart, and I was at 3 cm.  They had called my doctor, who was completely surprised to hear that I was in labor, especially since I’d just seen her 8 hours earlier!  And I wasn’t due for another 2 1/2 weeks!  The nurse told me that if the baby decided to come during the night, another doctor would be delivering since my doctor was home with her little kids and her husband was out of town.

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Since nothing too exciting seemed to be happening, David went out to find us some snacks.  [He had just been about to see if I wanted dinner yet when I came downstairs to tell him that we needed to call the hospital.]  It was determined that most likely, nothing would happen before midnight, but they’d start me on Pitocin in the morning.  [When your water breaks, typically they want to get the baby out quickly due to an increased risk of infection.]  David’s parents and sister stopped by that evening, and my mom and brother ended up getting into town about 12:30 am.  The nurse told us to try to get some sleep, but as soon as I’d start to fall asleep, I’d have another contraction, so she gave me a couple options:  pills or a shot.  Um, I’ll take the pills, thanks.

After a few hours of sleep (they were planning on starting the IV around 6 am), the nurse came in and told me I could take a shower & order some breakfast, and after that I’d get all hooked up with drugs.  I’m pretty sure the room service people thought I was crazy when I ordered French toast, a ham & cheese omelet, juice, fruit, and a donut…just for myself.  My mom and brother came to the hospital around the time our breakfast came; Philip was going to need to leave by noon to get back to Fargo.  David’s parents came at some point as well.  The rest of the morning was pretty exciting…I got a new nurse, contractions kind of mellowed out, and I got my IV put in.  On the fourth try.  Pretty sure I thought I’d throw up at one point there [needles are not my friend].  My nurse tried once in each hand, then she called in another nurse who tried once in my right arm, and then they called the swat team, who finally got it in.  They got the Pitocin going to speed up the contraction process, then told me to get some lunch before I got my epidural.  They try to do that between 5 and 7 cm, and I was at 5.  The nurse turned up the Pitocin, and David ordered my lunch for me, then everyone went to get lunch.  My lunch came right around the time when the drugs started doing their thing (around 12:30) and my contractions started getting really painful.  I could make it through maybe one bite between contractions.  It was great.

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The nurse called the anesthetist to get my epidural going, although the guy she called was apparently at a different hospital that day, so he had to call the one who was at the hospital I was at.  It all ended up taking a very long, painful time, and during the time I was getting the epidural, I had three incredibly painful contractions and thought I was going to DIE.  After that was all done, it was all good and I was incredibly tired.  I had dilated to 9 cm at this point (about 2pm), so they told me to get a little bit of rest before the doctor got there.

I got another new nurse at 3 [who, by the way, was fantastic], and about 3:45 they told me to start pushing.  I was still really tired, so between contractions, I actually took mini-naps.  That’s okay, right?!  Two hours later, at 5:36 pm, on January 20, our little baby girl made her appearance!  I got to see her for a little bit after she was flung onto my stomach, but then she was whisked away since I needed some [read:  1 hour’s worth] stitches and obviously that should be done before I regain feeling in the lower half of my body!  [She decided to be super-Baby and stuck her arm up by her head on the way out.] The doctors (a resident was there too) and nurse asked if got to hear her name yet, so I asked David to see her and find out what her name was.

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Our baby Abby measured at 20 inches long, 6 lbs 4 oz, with lots of hair!  She got to meet three of her grandparents and her Auntie Kristen when she was two hours old.  She was not impressed at the prospect of her first bath, but we made it through!  [And I look super pale.  Fantastic.]

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22 Jan 2011 pregnancy highlights: 37/38 weeks.
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Due to unforeseen circumstances, I’m combining weeks 37 & 38 in one post.  At least it’s on time for week 38!

37 weeks

Pregnancy Highlights: January 22, 2011.

How Far Along: If Baby were still inside, today I would be 38 weeks.

Size of Baby:  Last week, Baby was Swiss chard:  6 1/3 lbs, 19+ inches.  I think after hearing that, she decided enough’s enough; I don’t want to be any more goofy vegetables!  So she decided to break out before she got to turn into a leek: just under 7 lbs., 19.5+ inches.

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  I lost 1 pound at my 36.5 week appointment, but managed to eat enough cupcakes and cookies to gain 2 pounds for my appointment on Wednesday morning (January 19).  The girls at work told me on Monday that my stomach looks fake.  They thought I probably just shoved a basketball under my shirt…yes, a kicking, wiggling basketball.  I wonder where they sell those?!

Maternity Clothes:  Still the same; I wear my maternity jeans and one pair of regular jeans that’s a size up from normal (I can still zip & button them just fine!), but as soon as I get home, I change into my rollovers (yoga pants) or pj pants.  I also wore, for the first time, one of my 2 non-t-shirt maternity shirts, on Tuesday.

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  She was finally getting a little cramped in there, just wiggling and kicking, but no more crazy flips.

Sleep:  Still not incredibly comfortable.  Once I was able to fall asleep, it was great, until I had to wake up for the bathroom!

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Being comfortable.  Eating sushi.

Cravings:  None, unless you count sushi.  I really wanted that this past week; David & I talked on Tuesday night about how we only had 2 1/2 weeks left until we (and by we, I mean I) could eat sushi!

Best Moment of the Week:  officially full-term as of January 15!  We went up to Fargo that weekend for a baby shower and to celebrate Christmas with my family.  Sadly, my car decided to DIE on the way home, stranding us in Monticello until David’s parents were came to rescue us!

Of course, then there’s the obvious:  Baby coming!  That will be another post (with plenty of pictures, but no creepy nasty delivery-type ones because that was not allowed!), for another day, when I have had more than 2 1/2 hours of sleep. 

What I’m Looking Forward To:  Well, if Baby hadn’t decided to make an appearance 2 1/2 weeks early, we were looking forward to putting the last touches on her nursery and doing all that nesting fun.  So many things were on the list for this weekend…so much for that!  Instead, we are looking forward to getting to know our new baby girl!

38 weeks

Welcome Baby Abby!

Abigail Grace Helfinstine
Thursday, January 20, 2011
5:36 pm
6 lbs. 4 oz.
20 inches

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09 Jan 2011 pregnancy highlights: 36 weeks.
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36 weeks-2

Pregnancy Highlights: January 8, 2011.

How Far Along: 36 weeks.

Size of Baby:  She is a crenshaw melon this week…because I know what that is.  She’s about 6 lbs now, gaining an ounce a day.  She should be about 18.5 inches long, too.  I guess now we’re to the point where if I were to go into labor, the doctor’s okay with it.  (So far, though, she’s not interested in coming out yet.  Which is good since we still need more baby things!)

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  According to the doctor, I gained 3 lbs. since my last appointment (2 weeks ago).  So +24 lbs total, I think.

Maternity Clothes:  I pretty much stick with my one pair of maternity jeans now just because they don’t have a button to annoy me.  But I don’t like the panel so I shove it down like rollovers and use my bella band to hold them up.  I’m cool like that.

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  Maybe she decided she’s actually running out of room??  She still wiggles and kicks, but she hasn’t been as crazy since we went to the doctor on Tuesday.  I think the doctor almost didn’t believe how active she really still was until she felt her bounce all over the place!

Sleep:  There was one night last week where I thought I was going to DIE because my back hurt so bad.  That was a fun night…I think I was up every hour.  At least that was just one night.  But I’m back to needing to get up 2-3 or more times per night, which is really fun.

 Symptoms:  I got my back to crack!  Woohoo!  She must have moved enough out of the way so I could do it.  Good Baby!

What I Miss:  Not having to go to the bathroom every 30 minutes-1 hour.  I’d even take every 1-2 hours at this point.

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  I had my first baby shower on Saturday!  I’ll have pictures up after I steal them from Kari.

What I’m Looking Forward To:  We’re going to Fargo this weekend for Christmas with my family and another shower…I suppose I should let my doctor know that.  Eh, oh well.  I can tell her at my appointment this week (now I’m to the every week appointments!)

01 Jan 2011 pregnancy highlights: 35 weeks.
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35 weeks  

Pregnancy Highlights: January 1, 2011.  That’s weird.

How Far Along: 35 weeks.

Size of Baby:  She is a honeydew melon now.  She is supposed to be running out of space since she’s 5.25 lbs and over 18 inches long, but I don’t think she’s listening.  She seems to still think she has a lot of room and is taking full advantage of it.

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  I think the same.  Guess we’ll see what the doctor says on Tuesday!

Maternity Clothes:  I wore my one maternity dress when we went to dinner on our anniversary & I felt like I looked super-pregnant!

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  She must read this.  As soon as I wrote that she wasn’t kicking as much last week, just wiggling, she turned into crazy kicking baby.  She’s trying to punch & kick her way out this week.  I think she was thinking, “Hmm, maybe Daddy wants a tax break for 2010…eh, never mind.”

Sleep:  Decent-ish.  If you ignore the fact that (a) it’s uncomfortable, (b) crazy dreams (of the genres of crazy pregnancy dreams listed in What to Expect When You’re Expecting, I have had multiple dreams from all of them except one), and (c) every day I close at work, I am woken up by a call from the opener with questions!

Symptoms:  My back still hurts, and it won’t crack.  Who wants to get me a prenatal massage for…Epiphany?

What I Miss:  Sleeping comfortably, being able to sit comfortably in the car, etc.  And I have decided I’m not doing fitting rooms or go-backs at work anymore.  I now drop clothes & keys whenever I try, so why bother?!

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  Christmas!  I guess that was a week ago now, but you know…  It was our 5th anniversary on Tuesday.  That morning, after my meeting at work, I got a pedicure (birthday gift from my other managers!), and I didn’t realize how sore my feet & legs really were until then!  We celebrated by taking a nap after David got home from work, then going out to dinner.  I also made some wall art for the Baby’s room.  It’s not 100% done:  still awaiting a picture of her & her name across the top.  For those who are wondering, she *probably* has a name, but who knows?  It might not fit when she comes, so we’ll see.  I’ve tried to get her to kick in response to one or the other, but she’s being uncooperative in that regard.

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What I’m Looking Forward To:  Baby shower #1 next Saturday!  (If you’d like to come, talk to Kristen!)

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29 Dec 2010 pregnancy highlights: 33/34 weeks.
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Due to Christmas, I’m combining weeks 33 & 34 in one post…that’s late.  Oops.  Oh well.

33 weeks 

Pregnancy Highlights: December 25, 2010.

How Far Along: 34 weeks.

Size of Baby:  Last week, Baby was a pineapple.  Now she is a cantaloupe.  She’s gaining about 1/2 lb. per week, so she weighs about 4.75 pounds now!

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  Thanks to a strict McDonalds/Starbucks/Chipotle diet last Monday & Tuesday, I was able to gain some weight!  I have now officially gained 4 lbs since the week before Thanksgiving!  I think I’m up to +21 lbs (according to the doctor) total.

Maternity Clothes:  I got my maternity jeans last week!  I like the no-button-to-dig-into-Baby.  They’re a size smaller than my “normal” size, and I could have actually gone down another size.  Who does that?!

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  I think she’s getting bored.  She likes Christmas cookies & Thanksgiving food, and she gets excited about those.  Beyond that, she’s wiggly, but not as kicky except at night.

Sleep:  Still not incredibly comfortable + wacky dreams.  And I need my back to crack, but it won’t.  Ugh!

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Picking things up comfortably (again).

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  Christmas!

What I’m Looking Forward To:  Getting more things ready for Baby!  We got our travel system for Christmas (Thanks Grandpa & Grandma Helfinstine!), and I’m going to work on her room some more on my days off this week (wall decorations!).  AND Tuesday (December 28) is our 5th anniversary!!

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13 Dec 2010 pregnancy highlights: 32 weeks.
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32 weeks

Pregnancy Highlights: December 11, 2010.  (Not actually that date anymore, but we’ll talk about my blizzard experience in another post!)

How Far Along: 32 weeks.

Size of Baby:  Baby is now a jicama, weighing in at 3.75 lbs.  She’s around the same length:  about 18 inches (depending on what website you look at, she’s anywhere from 16.7-19 inches this week!).

Total Weight Gain/Loss:  My scale at home shows that I’ve gained a total of 23 lbs, but it starts at 3 lbs instead of 0, so I guess that means a total of 20?  I don’t really know.  I think I’ll stick with the story that Baby is eating all my food, so regardless of how much I eat, she takes it all.

Maternity Clothes:  Still the same…I’m sticking with my regular clothes.  Oh, I guess I am buying more size medium shirts now as opposed to small, if that counts.  We pre-registered online last night for the hospital and were entertained by the list of what to bring to the hospital:  I’m supposed to bring clothes that fit when I was about 5 months pregnant.  That would be different from my clothes now, how?

Gender:  Baby Girl!

Movement:  She is still crazy.  When she is not entertained by whatever I’m doing, she goes really low and stretches out.  I think it’s because she knows it’s not incredibly comfortable for me.  At work we have…fantastic entertainment outside our store some days, when miscellaneous bands, singers, and/or musicians play in the Sears court.  Baby is not a fan of those, especially the loud bands.  She moves to whatever side of me is furthest from the door and kicks!

Sleep:  Not incredibly comfortable + wacky dreams.

Symptoms:  No change.

What I Miss:  Hmm, can’t really think of anything for this week.  I guess just not having to remember my stomach takes up more space when trying to get through narrow spaces!

Cravings:  None.

Best Moment of the Week:  Blizzard!  OR…not so much.  We did get a good chunk of our Christmas shopping taken care of, so that’s good!

What I’m Looking Forward To:  Christmas!  Also, I’m still trying to teach Baby to kick on command.  I want her to kick Bones!  She’s done it several times, but Bones either doesn’t notice or doesn’t care.  Bones does enjoy snuggling with Baby though, see??

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